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The Resource The courage to be disliked : the Japanese phenomenon that shows you how to change your life and achieve real happiness, Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga

The courage to be disliked : the Japanese phenomenon that shows you how to change your life and achieve real happiness, Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga

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The courage to be disliked : the Japanese phenomenon that shows you how to change your life and achieve real happiness
Title
The courage to be disliked
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the Japanese phenomenon that shows you how to change your life and achieve real happiness
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Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
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  • eng
  • jpn
  • eng
Summary
"The Courage to Be Disliked, already an enormous bestseller in Asia with more than 3.5 million copies sold, demonstrates how to unlock the power within yourself to be the person you truly want to be. Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of twentieth century psychology, The Courage to Be Disliked follows an illuminating conversation between a philosopher and a young man. The philosopher explains to his pupil how each of us is able to determine our own life, free from the shackles of past experiences, doubts, and the expectations of others. It's a way of thinking that is deeply liberating, allowing us to develop the courage to change, and to ignore the limitations that we and other people have placed on us. The result is a book that is both highly accessible and profound in its importance. Millions have already read and benefitted from its wisdom. This truly life-changing book will help you declutter your mind of harmful thoughts and attitudes, helping you to make a lasting change, achieve real happiness, and find success"--Provided by publisher
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Kirawareru yūki
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1956-
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Kishimi, Ichirō
Dewey number
158
Index
no index present
Language note
In English, translated from the Japanese
LC call number
BF637.S4
LC item number
K553513 2018
Literary form
non fiction
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1973-
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Koga, Fumitake
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  • Adler, Alfred
  • Self-actualization (Psychology)
  • Adlerian psychology
  • Conduct of life
  • Thought and thinking
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The courage to be disliked : the Japanese phenomenon that shows you how to change your life and achieve real happiness, Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
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volume
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  • nc
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rdacarrier.
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text
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  • txt
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rdacontent.
Contents
  • Unhappiness is something you choose for yourself
  • People always choose not to change
  • Your life is decided here and now
  • The second night: All problems are interpersonal relationship problems.
  • Why you dislike yourself
  • All problems are interpersonal relationship problems
  • Feelings of inferiority are subjective assumptions
  • Inferiority complex is an excuse
  • Braggarts have feelings of inferiority
  • Life is not a competition
  • First night: deny trauma.
  • You're the only one worrying about your appearance
  • From power struggle to revenge
  • Admitting fault is not defeat
  • Overcoming the tasks that face you in life
  • Red string and rigid chains
  • Don't fall for the "life-lie"
  • From the psychology of possession to the psychology of practice
  • The third night: Discard other people's tasks.
  • Deny the desire for recognition
  • Do not live to satisfy the expectations of others
  • Unknown third giant
  • How to separate tasks
  • Discard other people's tasks
  • How to rid yourself of interpersonal relationship problems
  • Cut the Gordian knot
  • Desire for recognition makes you unfree
  • What real freedom is
  • You hold the cards to interpersonal relationships
  • The fourth night: Where the center of the world is.
  • Individual psychology and holism
  • Goal of interpersonal relationships is a feeling of community
  • Why people can change
  • Why am I only interested in myself?
  • You are not the center of the world
  • Listen to the voice of a larger community
  • Do not rebuke or praise
  • Encouragement approach
  • How to feel you have value
  • Exist in the present
  • People cannot make proper use of self
  • The fifth night: To live in earnest in the here and now.
  • Excessive self-consciousness stifles the self
  • Trauma does not exist
  • Not self-affirmation, self acceptance
  • Difference between trust and confidence
  • Essence of work is a contribution to the common good
  • Young people walk ahead of adults
  • Workaholism is a life-lie
  • You can be happy now
  • Two paths traveled by those wanting to be "special beings"
  • Courage to be normal
  • Life is a series of moments
  • Life like you're dancing
  • People fabricate anger
  • Shine a light on the here and now
  • Greatest life-lie
  • Give meaning to seemingly meaningless life
  • How to live without being controlled by the past
  • Socrates and Adler
  • Are you okay just as you are?
Control code
on1025403704
Dimensions
22 cm
Extent
xviii, 270 pages
Isbn
9781501197277
Lccn
2018002432
Media category
unmediated
Media MARC source
rdamedia.
Media type code
  • n
System control number
(OCoLC)1025403704
Label
The courage to be disliked : the Japanese phenomenon that shows you how to change your life and achieve real happiness, Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
Publication
Copyright
Carrier category
volume
Carrier category code
  • nc
Carrier MARC source
rdacarrier.
Content category
text
Content type code
  • txt
Content type MARC source
rdacontent.
Contents
  • Unhappiness is something you choose for yourself
  • People always choose not to change
  • Your life is decided here and now
  • The second night: All problems are interpersonal relationship problems.
  • Why you dislike yourself
  • All problems are interpersonal relationship problems
  • Feelings of inferiority are subjective assumptions
  • Inferiority complex is an excuse
  • Braggarts have feelings of inferiority
  • Life is not a competition
  • First night: deny trauma.
  • You're the only one worrying about your appearance
  • From power struggle to revenge
  • Admitting fault is not defeat
  • Overcoming the tasks that face you in life
  • Red string and rigid chains
  • Don't fall for the "life-lie"
  • From the psychology of possession to the psychology of practice
  • The third night: Discard other people's tasks.
  • Deny the desire for recognition
  • Do not live to satisfy the expectations of others
  • Unknown third giant
  • How to separate tasks
  • Discard other people's tasks
  • How to rid yourself of interpersonal relationship problems
  • Cut the Gordian knot
  • Desire for recognition makes you unfree
  • What real freedom is
  • You hold the cards to interpersonal relationships
  • The fourth night: Where the center of the world is.
  • Individual psychology and holism
  • Goal of interpersonal relationships is a feeling of community
  • Why people can change
  • Why am I only interested in myself?
  • You are not the center of the world
  • Listen to the voice of a larger community
  • Do not rebuke or praise
  • Encouragement approach
  • How to feel you have value
  • Exist in the present
  • People cannot make proper use of self
  • The fifth night: To live in earnest in the here and now.
  • Excessive self-consciousness stifles the self
  • Trauma does not exist
  • Not self-affirmation, self acceptance
  • Difference between trust and confidence
  • Essence of work is a contribution to the common good
  • Young people walk ahead of adults
  • Workaholism is a life-lie
  • You can be happy now
  • Two paths traveled by those wanting to be "special beings"
  • Courage to be normal
  • Life is a series of moments
  • Life like you're dancing
  • People fabricate anger
  • Shine a light on the here and now
  • Greatest life-lie
  • Give meaning to seemingly meaningless life
  • How to live without being controlled by the past
  • Socrates and Adler
  • Are you okay just as you are?
Control code
on1025403704
Dimensions
22 cm
Extent
xviii, 270 pages
Isbn
9781501197277
Lccn
2018002432
Media category
unmediated
Media MARC source
rdamedia.
Media type code
  • n
System control number
(OCoLC)1025403704

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